About This Episode
"I lost myself this year. I let everybody else's opinions dictate how I lived my life." Those tearful words from a friend struck me deeply because we've all felt that painful disconnect between who we are and who others expect us to be.
In this episode, I dive into the struggle of maintaining your integrity when the world is shouting its opinions at you. Drawing from my own recent battles with self-doubt and the pressure to conform, I share how even as a confidence coach, I've lost sleep wondering if I'm on the right path when faced with criticism and conflicting advice.
The journey to staying true to yourself isn't about perfection—it's about intention. I explore the warning signs of losing yourself (feeling anxious about others' thoughts, saying yes to draining commitments, playing a role instead of living authentically) and offer practical tools to reclaim your center. From the powerful three-person rule (only three people's opinions should truly matter to you) to the perspective-shifting 10-year test ("Will I regret changing myself for this person in 10 years?"), these strategies help filter the overwhelming noise that can drown out your inner voice.
Chapters:
- : Losing Yourself to Others' Opinions
- : The Power of Staying True to Yourself
- : Avoiding the Downward Spiral
- : Handling External Pressures and Opinions
- : Staying Grounded in Your Values
- : Your Voice Matters: Final Thoughts
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Show Notes
- •0:00: Losing Yourself to Others' Opinions
- •: The Power of Staying True to Yourself
- •15:23: Avoiding the Downward Spiral
- •: Handling External Pressures and Opinions
- •27:46: Staying Grounded in Your Values
- •: Your Voice Matters: Final Thoughts
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